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Exercise At Work

January 29th, 2008 by Melanie

I’ve realized over the last several years that now having a job where I sit the majority of the time at a computer is a big difference from attending several dance classes a day while in college… also factor in having to walk across campus from class to class. Although I still have to get up to walk to another room for copies, cutting paper, or looking for needed supplies, my physical activity just isn’t the same. I was emailed this link today, and think this might be the answer to my less athletic days. Check it out…

http://ellen.warnerbros.com/2008/01/hawaii_chair.php

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High School Musical

January 29th, 2008 by Melanie

***** I give five stars to the High School Musical tour at TPAC. For Christmas, Tony and I got tickets for his two younger sisters, and Friday night the two of them and I enjoyed a fun girls’ night out. Although it may seem impossible, I actually have NOT seen the movie(s). So, I was excited to see what all the talk has been about. We were on the absolute top row, but I don’t believe that there is one bad seat in the theatre. The girls said that they enjoyed it more than the movie, and were amazed with the set and how creatively and how many times it changed (as was I). The actors did a very good job, songs were quite catchy, and it was fun to experience the entertainment of all the kids sitting around us. I’m excited to have sisters to do things with, and look forward to many more times like this. Now I have to rent the movie(s)!

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And So It Began…

January 28th, 2008 by Melanie

this morning. For those of you who know Tony, this will come as no surprise. For those of you who don’t, let me just say, “He is head over heels for coffee.” Sometimes it’s a close call between me and the beans. The first thing he does in the morning is walk with eyes half opened, feeling his way along the wall, to the coffee pot to get his first cup. We cannot drive by a Starbucks without stopping. Sometimes we make our eating, shopping, or driving decisions based on where a Starbucks is located. He confessed to me just tonight that there are some mornings that he becomes bitter at me for the mug of coffee I take to work in the mornings because that makes 2 less cups of coffee from the pot that he can enjoy. So now that you understand a little bit of his life-long love affair, you will have a better feel for how he might have responded this morning to a strangely quieter than normal grinding of his automatic grind and brew. The bean grinding blade broke, and all he was served was hot water. I was impressed by his calmness, but I know he was disappointed.

When I came home from church this afternoon, I found him waiting for me in the kitchen, wide eyed, and almost lost. He asked, “What am I supposed to do without football?” Ever since we’ve been married (oh, so long, I know), football has been on. His Sunday ritual is to vege out in his recliner and watch as many games as possible (sometimes one would be on his computer screen while the other played on the tv). So, being this was his first football-free afternoon, he was confused as what to do for 6 plus hours. His solution: MUST BUY A GAMING SYSTEM. We decided on a Wii, but, of course, they are obsolete. We decided, nonetheless to spend the afternoon going from store to store to see if we happened to be lucky. I mean, what else could we possibly have done with our afternoon? We very quickly became discouraged at the impossible task of finding a Wii today, so we moved on to the search for a new, must be just the right kind but not outrageously expensive, coffee maker. (Please know that this is our 4th one to occupy the counter since we’ve been married… again, oh, so long. The first - mine - was naturally not good enough; you had to push the start button yourself. The second - his - was free from an internet monthly coffee deal, and didn’t take long to poop out. The third - a special, most treasured birthday gift - unfortunately lived up to it’s poor reviews.) We began at Mimi’s Cafe for lunch, but the wait was too long, so we began our quest at Best Buy (where we purchased a hook up for my ipod to the stereo for dance) and then settled at Red Robin due to the fact that I was about to eat my arm. We then moved on to the mall, Linens-N-Things (where we got a couple of glasses and gadgets on clearance), to Sam’s (where we purchased Salmon and a 4 Berry Sunday for a snack), to Kohl’s, and then a quick stop at home to drop off the Salmon and take a bathroom break. We then headed to Bed Bath and Beyond, back to Best Buy, moved on to HHGregg, then back to the mall. From there we visited Target (where we got a fun tshirt for a gift-loving friend), went across the street to Walmart, and then again to Kohl’s… where we found coffee maker #4 and some new sweat pants for myself (which will be returned tomorrow due to a poor size choice and rediculous low, low, low, don’t know how it covers anything rise. Side note - Tony’s response to the trial wear was, “Wow, so I guess it’s time to hit the gym, huh?” Yes, be encouraged he has apologized, and I have giggled at his ignorance of appropriate things to say in those situations.)

I’m sure this will not be a normal Sunday afternoon, but we enjoyed it. I definitely couldn’t begin to count the number of times we got in and out of the car. Tony has now taken close to an hour to read about and set up his new toy, and then maybe I’ll have space to make dinner. So, despite my hopes against it, I do believe that video games are in our future. But, a boy has to have something to do on a lazy Sunday afternoon, right?

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Day Three Successful

January 24th, 2008 by Melanie

We made it through now day three of recovery.  By we, I really mean Tony has made it through.  He was home by himself all day and most of the evening.  He began working because deadlines couldn’t be put on hold, but I think he was going through computer withdrawls and secretly enjoyed a little bit of normal day life.  He is desperate for something of substane to eat… you know, something he can actually chew, not just drink through a straw or slurp from a spoon.

Although the pain meds have hindered him from feeling quite like himself, he has become full of love and expression and is constantly saying nice things to me, so that part I’ve enjoyed.  I did threaten to punch him in the jaw if he continued to discuss blood and oozing grossness.  I know, I know, not a nice response to all his lovingly kind words, but I wanted him to know I was serious.  I would never, of course, do such a horrible thing to my invalid.

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Day One

January 22nd, 2008 by Melanie

Well, we made it through the first day.  Tony’s extraction was first thing in the morning, and only took 30 minutes.  They wheeled him out to the car in a wheelchair and we were on our way back home by 9:00.  I think we had the same conversation about gauze and prescriptions and how he got his coat on about 10 times in an hour.  It was very amusing.  I did throw a few different answers in there just to see if he would notice, but he didn’t.  He watched hours of “Dirty Jobs” and “Everybody Loves Raymond”; tried to slurp down some chicken noodle soup with no success over the noodles; and has found that Ensure really isn’t so bad.  My mom came and took care of him while I went back to work in the afternoon, and said he was a very good patient.  I agree.  He’s very easy to take care of… of course, it’s pretty hard not to have compassion when you can tell that he’s very obviously in pain and uncomfortable.  We’ll see how today goes. 

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Possible Agony

January 21st, 2008 by Melanie

Well, I’m awaiting a new day, new week, and a new opportunity for sympathy. My husband of almost 4 months is getting 5… yes, FIVE… teeth pulled tomorrow. I’m not very good with sympathyzing at times. I’m not a big fan of whining, therefore, dealing with pain can be a challenge (both my own and others’). I adore this man I now have committed my life and living with, I’m just not sure how well he’s going to cope and how quickly he will hopefully heal. He has requested Ensure, chicken noodle soup, and lots of loving care. I’m up for the challenge… just don’t know how excited I am about any blood or gauze changing, or… yuck. For his last day of normalcy, we have dedicated the afternoon to football (big surprise). I’ve taken a nap, done laundry, washed dishes, prepared meals and snacks, checked my email, prepared books for the wait in the doctor’s office, cheered on what I can understand of the game, and asked a plethora of what I’m sure are annoying questions at the very times he wished I would leave him be to enjoy the game in peace. It’s been a fun time. Haha.

I do have to say that he dedicated most of the day yesterday to me and what I wanted… I love movies. We couldn’t agree on what to go see, so he decided we should have a double play. Two movies in one day?! I think I just fell in love a little bit more. His choice was “I Am Legend.” I cannot recommend it. Although I am a big fan of Will Smith, I am not a fan of anything scary with the potential to enter my dreams and haunt my very powerful imagination. I kept picturing these horrible aggressive zombie people coming in my house. Yes, even while I was awake. I couldn’t wake Tony, because I just knew that if I jarred him, he would turn and look at me with those same wild eyes, open his mouth, and rip me to shreds. Maybe tonight will be a little better. Our second movie (obviously my choice) was “27 Dresses.” It was predictable, mildly funny, but easy to watch and still entertaining. I appreciated him taking me. A day of movies for a day of football - it’s an okay trade.

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Picture Upload Test

January 15th, 2008 by Melanie

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See adding a picture to your blog still works Mel… ok, now you should post something for all your hopeful readers.

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Happy 2008

January 2nd, 2008 by Melanie

Well, first and foremost, I hope to keep up with my blog for my following of two this year.  Hopefully 2008 will bring much inspiration and funny stories to share.

January is always a time for reflection, renewal, and preparation for the time ahead.  I spent New Year’s Eve catching up for a while with an old friend from college, who now lives in Oklahoma, and with Emily and Daniel Doss.  (Tony and my first option was to have a nice evening at the Melting Pot, but one call for a reservation and thinking about the extreme New Years cost, ended any hope of that.  Some other time, maybe.)  It was a wonderful night and I wouldn’t have spent it any other way.  We grabbed some dinner, went to Target and Kroger (What else would you do on one of the year’s top party nights?), and then home to play the wii, make chocolate covered strawberries, and dream of this coming summer’s vacation.  We go so wrapped up in doing different things, we almost missed the ball dropping celebration.  As I thought over all that had happend in 2007 (I bought a house, took on a new position at work, fell in love, got engaged, proceeded to then get married 6 months later, cheered on my dad as he began a new job, congratulated my brother as he graduated from UT Knoxville… and that’s only the big stuff), I was happy and content with how the year went… it was by far one of my favorites, and in many moments, very overwhelming. 

And now, on the horizon of 2008, I’m wondering all that it will bring.  I will continue to learn how to be a good wife, I hope to grow in my relationship with Christ (I will take my first trip out of the country to Brazil with our juniors and seniors for a mission trip, so that’s bound to require some stretching and growing), and be the best daughter, teacher, encourager, and friend I can.  I’ve heard it said that you’re always in rotation through three stages of life:  you’re in the middle of some sort of storm, you’re getting out of a major storm, or you’re about to enter one.  Well, with how 2007 took care of me, I am a little leary of what’s next.  But, not in a pessimistic way.  I’m looking forward to each new day, I just want to be ready for whatever comes.  As ready as I can, anyway.

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